Women's Day is the biggest celebration of the year, which starts on March 8 and ends on the March 7.
One day of the year ‘Women's Day’... just one day, what can be a bigger joke than that could be?
But how can it be possible to accommodate such a huge personality and god’s immense work in just one day?
In the Western world where there is no time for anything, or don’t even want to spare any time for anyone, as it occurs as a time wasted for many then one day is also a big deal; isn’t it?
The so-called ordinary housewife handles so many things at once that it is not possible for us to describe in a few words for that seemingly ordinary woman. It may have been possible to put it into words when we understood it, but it is certainly not that easy to understand.
There is a saying in English ‘Practice Makes a Man Perfect.’ But that doesn't apply to women because they are born perfect because they are 'fluid'.
If they stop, it turns into a puddle, but stopping in one place is not usually who & what they are. There is a kind of fickleness in them and that is why enthusiasm flows from their behaviour and speech.
If you want an example, look at the festivities in the house where the girls are. So be it in insisting to buy new clothes or doing whatever it takes to celebrate the festival with enthusiasm. Forget the little girls, just look at the enthusiasm of the women to wear the nine sarees during the nine days of Navratri. Take a look at the variety of dishes and meals for their festivities, often in the shortest possible time.
It is the girls or the women who make every festival feel like a festival and it is only because of them that they add colour to a festival that never seems to be complete without them.
And now take a house where there are no women so you will understand exactly what I am saying.
Flow is the essence of life and women are a living example of it. So don't bother to change them or hurt them. Rather let you be in that stream to enjoy Life thoroughly.
The place of woman is first and foremost in our Indian culture. Nothing is possible in this world without her. If the woman of the house is not standing for you then forget livelihood even making progress in day to day life will also become a daydream.
And if you are lucky, to have been surrounded by women with you in the form of mother, grandmother, wife, daughter or a close friend, then your dreams are bound to realise in a shortest possible time.
One more thing to keep in mind. A woman can cross even the biggest mountain for you, but if she get hurt, same mountain will be falling on your head for sure. If you don't want that to happen then do treat her only with love and respect and she will fill your entire life with happiness.
Shailesh Tandel
Life Coach | Business Mentor | Success Coach | Corporate Trainer | Time Management Guru | Relationship Guru |
